Why Do We Take the LORD’S SUPPER?

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Worship done in ignorance does nothing beneficial for the spirit of the believer, and it certainly does not please or glorify Christ. Before you take Communion/ the Lord’s Supper, strive to understand the meaning and the benefits. Here’s a great article by JC Ryle. It abounds with great insight on the matter. Enjoy!

 

The Lord’s Supper
By J. C. Ryle

(1816-1900)

“A man ought to examine himself before he eats of the bread and drinks of the cup” (1 Corinthians 11:28)

The words which form the title of this paper refer to the subject of vast
importance.  That subject is the Lord’s Supper.
Perhaps no part of the Christian religion is so thoroughly misunderstood as
the Lord’s Supper.  On no point have there been so many disputes, strifes,
and controversies for almost 1800 years.  On no point have mistakes done so
much harm.  The very ordinance which was meant for our peace and profit has
become the cause of discord and the occasion of sin.  These things ought not
to be!

I make no excuse for including the Lord’s Supper among the leading points of
“practical” Christianity.  I firmly believe that ignorant views or false
doctrine about this ordinance lie at the root of some of the present
divisions of professing Christians.  Some neglect it altogether; some
completely misunderstand it; some exalt it to a position it was never meant
to occupy, and turn it into an idol.  If I can throw a little light on it,
and clear up the doubts in some minds, I will feel very thankful.  It is
hopeless, I fear, to expect that the controversy about the Lord’s Supper will
ever be finally closed until the Lord comes.  But it is not too much to hope
that the fog and mystery and obscurity with which it is surrounded in some
minds, may be cleared away by plain Bible truth.

In examining the Lord’s Supper I will be content with asking four practical
questions, and offering answers to them.

  1. Why was the Lord’s Supper ordained?
  2. Who ought to go to the Table and be communicants?
  3. What may communicants expect from the Lord’s Supper?
  4. Why do many so-called Christians (church-going unbelievers) never go to
    the Lord’s Table?

I think it will be impossible to handle these four questions fairly,
honestly, and impartially, without seeing the subject of this paper more
clearly, and getting some distinct and practical ideas about some leading
errors of our day.  I say “practical” emphatically.  My chief aim in this
volume is to promote practical Christianity.

I) In the first place, “why was the Lord’s Supper ordained?”

It was ordained for the continual remembrance of the sacrifice of the death
of Christ, and of the benefits which we thereby receive.  The bread which in
the Lord’s Supper is broken, given, and eaten, is meant to remind us of
Christ’s body given on the cross for our sins.  The wine which is poured out
and received, is meant to remind us of Christ’s blood shed on the cross for
our sins.  He that eats that bread and drinks that wine is reminded, in the
most striking and forcible manner, of the benefits Christ has obtained for
his soul, and of the death of Christ as the hinge and turning point on which
all those benefits depend.

Now, is the view here stated the doctrine of the New Testament?  If it is
not, forever let it be rejected, cast aside, and refused by men.  If it is,
let us never be ashamed to hold it close, profess our belief in it, pin our
faith on it, and steadfastly refuse to hold any other view, no matter who
teaches it.  In subjects like this we must call no man master.  It matters
little what great theologians and learned preachers have thought fit to put
forth about the Lord’s Supper.  If they teach more than the Word of God
contains they are not to be believed.

I take down my Bible and turn to the New Testament.  There I find no less
than four separate accounts of the first appointment of the Lord’s Supper.
Matthew, Mark, Luke, and Paul, all four describe it: all four agree in
telling us what our Lord did on this memorable occasion.  Only two tell us
the reason why our Lord commanded that His disciples were to eat the bread
and drink the cup.  Paul and Luke both record the remarkable words, “Do this
in remembrance of me.”  Paul adds his own inspired comment: “For whenever you
eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until he
comes.” (Luke 22:19; 1 Corinthians 11:25-26).  When Scripture speaks so
clearly, why can’t men be content with it?  Why should we mystify and
confuse a subject which in the New Testament is so simple?  The “continual
remembrance of Christ’s death” was the one grand object for which the Lord’s
Supper was ordained.  He that goes further than this is adding to God’s Word,
and does so to the great peril of his soul.

Now, is it reasonable to suppose that our Lord would appoint an ordinance for
so simple a purpose as “remembering His death?”  It most certainly is.  Of
all the facts in His earthly ministry none are equal in importance to that of
His death.  It was the great settlement for man’s sin, which had been
appointed in God’s promise from the foundation of the world.  It was the
great redemption of almighty power, to which every sacrifice of animals, from
the fall of man, continually pointed.  It was the grand end and purpose for
which the Messiah came into the world.  It was the cornerstone and foundation
of all man’s hopes of pardon and peace with God.  In short, Christ would have
lived, and taught, and preached, and prophesied, and performed miracles in
vain, if He had not “crowned it all by dying for our sins as our Substitute
on the Cross!”  His death was our life.  His death was the payment of our
debt to God.  Without His death we would have been the most miserable of all
creatures.  No wonder that an ordinance was specially appointed to remind us
of our Savior’s death.  It is the one thing which poor, weak, sinful man
needs to be continually reminded.

Does the New Testament authorize men to say that the Lord’s Supper was
ordained to be a sacrifice, and that in it Christ’s literal body and blood
are present under the forms of bread and wine?  Most certainly not!  When the
Lord Jesus said to the disciples, “This is my Body,” and “this is my Blood,”
He clearly meant, “This bread in my hand is an symbol of my Body, and this
cup of wine in my hand contains a symbol of my Blood.”  The disciples were
accustomed to hear Him use such language.  They remembered His saying, “The
field is the world, and the good seed stands for the sons of the kingdom.

The weeds are the sons of the evil one” (Matthew 13:38).  It never entered
into their minds that He meant to say He was holding His own body and His own
blood in His hands, and literally giving them His literal body and blood to
eat and drink.  Not one of the writers of the New Testament ever speaks of
the Lord’s Supper as a sacrifice, or calls the Lord’s Table an altar, or even
hints that a Christian minister is a sacrificing priest.  The universal
doctrine of the New Testament is that after the one offering of Christ there
remains no more need of sacrifice.

If any one believes that Paul’s words to the Hebrews, “We have an altar”
(Hebrews 13:10), are a proof that the Lord’s table is an altar, I remind him
“Christians have an altar where they partake.  That altar is Christ our Lord,
who is Altar, Priest, and Sacrifice, all in One.”

Throughout the Communion Service the one idea of the ordinance continually
pressed on our attention is that of a “remembrance” of Christ’s death.  As to
any presence of Christ’s natural body and blood under the forms of bread and
wine, the clear answer is that “the natural body and blood of Christ are in
heaven, and not here.”  Those Roman Catholics who delight in talking of the
“altar,” the “sacrifice,” the “priest,” and the “real presence” in the
Lord’s Supper, would do well to remember that they are using language which
is entirely non-Biblical.

The point before us is one of vast importance.  Let us lay hold upon it
firmly, and never let it go.  It is the very point on which our Reformers had
their sharpest controversy with the Roman Catholics, and went to the stake,
rather than give way.  Sooner than admit that the Lord’s Supper was a
sacrifice, they cheerfully laid down their lives.  To bring back the doctrine
of the “real presence,” and to turn the communion into the Roman Catholic
“mass,” is to pour contempt on our Martyrs, and to upset the first principles
of the Protestant Reformation.  No, rather, it is to ignore the plain
teaching of God’s Word, and do dishonor to the priestly office of our Lord
Jesus Christ.  The Bible teaches expressly that the Lord’s Supper was
ordained to be “a remembrance of Christ’s body and blood,” and not an
offering.  The Bible teaches that Christ’s substituted death on the cross was
the perfect sacrifice for sin, which never needs to be repeated.  Let us
stand firm in these two great principles of the Christian faith.  A clear
understanding of the intention of the Lord’s Supper is one of the soul’s best
safeguards against the delusions of false doctrine.

II) In the second place, let me try to show “who ought to receive the Lord’s
Supper?”  What kind of persons were meant to go to the Table and receive the
Lord’s Supper?

I will first show who ought not to be partakers of this ordinance.  The
ignorance which prevails on this, as well as on every part of the subject, is
vast, lamentable, and appalling.  If I can contribute anything that may throw
light upon it, I will feel very thankful.  The principal giants whom John
Bunyan describes, in “Pilgrim’s Progress,” as dangerous to Christian
pilgrims, were two, Pope and Pagan.  If the good old Puritan had foreseen the
times we live in, he would have said something about the giant Ignorance.

(a)  It is not right to urge all professing Christians to go to the Lord’s
Table.  There is such a thing as fitness and preparedness for the ordinance.
It does not work like a medicine, independently of the state of mind of those
who receive it.  The teaching of those who urge all their congregation to
come to the Lord’s Table, as if the coming must necessarily do every one
good, is entirely without warrant of Scripture.  No, rather, it is a teaching
which is calculated to do immense harm to men’s souls, and to turn the
reception of the Lord’s Supper into a mere form.  Ignorance can never be the
mother of acceptable worship, and an ignorant communicant who comes to the
Lord’s Table without knowing why he comes, is altogether in the wrong place.
“A man ought to examine himself before he eats of the bread and drinks of the
cup.”–“recognizing the body of the Lord,”–that is to understand what the
elements of bread and wine represent, and why they are appointed, and what is
the particular use of remembering Christ’s death–is an essential
qualification of a true communicant.  God commands all people everywhere to
repent and believe the Gospel (Acts 17:30), but He does not in the same way,
or in the same manner, command everybody to come to the Lord’s Table.  No:
this thing is not to be taken lightly, or carelessly!  It is a solemn
ordinance, and solemnly it ought to be used.

(b)  But this is not all.  Sinners living in open sin, and determined not to
give it up ought never to come to the Lord’s Table.  To do so is a positive
insult to Christ, and to pour contempt on His Gospel.  It is nonsense to
profess we desire to remember Christ’s death, while we cling to the accursed
thing which made it needful for Christ to die.  The mere fact that a man is
continuing in sin is clear evidence that he does not care for Christ, and
feels no gratitude for the offer of redemption.

The ignorant Roman Catholic who goes to the priest’s confessional and
receives absolution, may think he is fit to go to the Roman Catholic mass,
and after mass may return to his sins.  He never reads the Bible, and knows
no better!  But the professing Christian who habitually breaks any of God’s
commandments, and yet goes to the Lord’s Table, as if it would do him good
and wipe away his sins, is very guilty indeed.  So long as he chooses to
continue his wicked habits he cannot receive the slightest benefit from the
Lord’s Table, and is only adding sin to sin.  To carry unrepented sin to the
Lord’s Table, and there receive the bread and wine, knowing in our own hearts
that we and wickedness are yet friends, is one of the worst things man can
do, and one of the most hardening to the conscience.  If a man must have his
sins, and can’t give them up, let him by all means stay away from the Lord’s
Supper.  There is such a thing as “eating and drinking in an unworthy manner”
and to our own “judgment.”  To no one do these words apply so thoroughly as to
an unrepentant sinner.

(c)  But I am not done yet.  Self-righteous people who think that they will
be saved by their own works, have no business to come to the Lord’s Table.

Strange as it may sound at first, these persons are the least qualified of
all to receive the Lord’s table.  They may be outwardly correct, moral and
respectable in their lives, but so long as they trust in their own goodness
for salvation they are entirely in the wrong place at the Lord’s Supper.  For
what do we declare at the Lord’s Supper?  We publicly profess that we have no
goodness, righteousness, or worthiness of our own, and that all our hope is
in Christ.

We publicly profess that we are guilty, sinful, corrupt, and naturally
deserve God’s wrath and condemnation.  We publicly profess that Christ’s
merit and not our’s, Christ’s righteousness and not our’s is the only cause
why we look for acceptance with God.  Now what has a self-righteous man to do
with an ordinance like this?  Clearly nothing at all.

One thing at any rate, is very clear: a self-righteous man has no business to
receive the Lord’s Supper.  The Communion Service of the Church bids all
communicants declare that “they do not presume to come to the Table trusting
in their own righteousness, but in God’s numerous and great mercies.”  It
tells them to say, “We are not worthy so much as to gather up the crumbs
under Your table,” “the memory of our sins is grievous to us; the burden of
them is intolerable.”  How many self-righteous professing Christians can ever
go to the Lord’s Table and take these words into his mouth, is beyond my
understanding!  It only shows that many professing Christians use the “forms”
of worship without taking the trouble to consider what they mean.

The plain truth is that the Lord’s Supper was not meant for dead souls, but
for living ones.  The careless, the ignorant, the willfully wicked, the self-
righteous, are no more fit to come to the Lord’s Table than a dead corpse is
fit to sit down at a king’s feast.  To enjoy a spiritual feast we must have a
spiritual heart, and taste, and appetite.  To suppose that the Lord’s Table
can do any good to an unspiritual man, is as foolish as to put bread and wine
into the mouth of a dead person.  The careless, the ignorant, and the
willfully wicked, so long as they continue in that state, are utterly unfit
to come to the Lord’s Supper.  To urge them to partake is not to do them good
but harm.  The Lord’s Supper is not a converting or justifying ordinance.  If
a man goes to the Table unconverted or unforgiven, he will be no better when
he comes away (actually worse due to the associated judgments for coming
unworthily).

But, after all, the ground having been cleared of error, the question still
remains to be answered–Who are the sort of persons who ought to receive the
Lord’s Supper?  I answer that by saying, people who have “examined themselves
to see whether they have truly repented of their former sins, steadfastly
purposing to lead a new life–have a true faith in God’s mercy through
Christ, with a thankful remembrance of His death–they are in love with all
men.”  In a word, I find that a worthy communicant is one who possesses three
simple marks and qualifications–repentance, faith, and love.  Does a man
truly repent of sin and hate it?  Does a man put his trust in Jesus Christ as
his only hope of salvation?  Does a man live in love towards others?  He that
can truly answer each of these questions, “I do,” he is a man that is
Scripturally qualified for the Lord’s Supper.  Let him come boldly.  Let no
barrier be put in his way.  He comes up to the Bible standard of
communicants.  He may draw near with confidence, and feel assured that the
great Master of the banquet is not displeased.

Such a man’s repentance may be very much imperfect.  Never mind!  Is it real?
Is he truly repentant?  His faith in Christ may be very weak.  Never mind!
Is it real?  A penny is as much true currency as is a one hundred dollar
bill.  His love may be very defective in quantity and degree.  Never mind!

Is it genuine?  The grand test of a man’s Christianity is not the quantity of
holiness he has, but whether he has any all.

The first twelve communicants, when Christ Himself gave the bread and wine,
were weak indeed–weak in knowledge, weak in faith, weak in courage, weak in
patience, weak in love!  But eleven of them had something about them which
outweighed all defects: they were real, genuine, sincere, and true.

Forever let this great principle be rooted in our minds–the only worthy
communicant is the man who has demonstrated repentance toward God, faith
toward our Lord Jesus Christ, and practical love toward others.  Are you that
man?  Then you may draw near to the table, and take the ordinance to your
comfort.  Anything less than this I dare not change in my standard of a
communicant.  I will never encourage someone to receive the Lord’s Supper who
is careless, ignorant, and self-righteous.  I will never tell anyone to keep
away till he is perfect, and to wait till his heart is as unruffled as an
angel’s.  I will not do so, because I believe that neither my Master nor His
Apostles would have done so.  Show me a man that really feels his sins,
really leans on Christ, really struggles to be holy, and I will welcome him
in My Master’s name.  He may feel weak, erring, empty, feeble, doubting,
wretched, and poor.  But what does that matter?  Paul, I believe, would have
received him as a right communicant, and I will do likewise.

III.  In the third place, let us consider “what benefit communicants may
expect to get by receiving the Lord’s Supper.”

This is a point of grave importance, and one on which many mistakes abound.
On no point, perhaps, connected with this ordinance are the views of
Christians so vague and indistinct and undefined.

One common idea among men is that “receiving the Lord’s Supper must do them
some good.”  Why, they can’t explain.  What good, they can’t exactly say.  But
they have a loose general notion that it is the right thing to be a
communicant, and that somehow or other it is of value to their souls!  This
is of course nothing better than ignorance.  It is unreasonable to suppose
that such communicants can please Christ, or receive any real benefit from
what they do.  If there is any principle clearly laid down in the Bible about
any act of religious worship, it is this that it must be with understanding.
The worshiper must at least understand something about what he is doing.
Mere bodily worship, unaccompanied by mind or heart, is utterly worthless.
The man who eats the bread and drinks the wine, as a mere matter of form,
because it is the “right” thing to do, without any clear idea of what it all
means, derives no benefit.  He might just as well stay at home!

Another common idea among men is that, “taking the Lord’ Supper will help
them get to heaven, and take away their sins.”  To this false idea you may
trace up the habit in some churches of going to the Lord’s Table once a year,
in order, as an old farmer once said, “to wipe off the year’s sins.”  To this
idea again, you may trace the too common practice of sending for a minister
in time of sickness, in order to receive the ordinance before death.  Yes,
how many take comfort about their relatives, after they have lived a most
ungodly life, for no better reason than this, that they took the Lord’s
Supper when they were dying!  Whether they repented and believed and had new
hearts, they neither seem to know or care.  All they know is that “they took
the Lord’s Supper before they died.”  My heart sinks within me when I hear
people resting on such evidence as this.

Ideas like these are sad proofs of the ignorance that fills the minds of men
about the Lord’s Supper.  They are ideas for which there is not the slightest
warrant in Scripture.  The sooner they are cast aside and given up, the
better for the Church and the world.

Let us settle it firmly in our minds that the Lord’s Supper was not given to
be a means either of justification or of conversion.  It was never meant to
give grace where there is no grace already, or to provide pardon when pardon
is not already enjoyed.  It cannot possibly provide what is lacking with the
absence of repentance to God, and faith toward the Lord Jesus Christ.  It is
an ordinance for the penitent, not for the impenitent, for the believing, not
for the unbelieving, for the converted, not for the unconverted.  The
unconverted man, who fancies that be can find a “shortcut” to heaven by
taking the Lord’s Supper, without treading the well-worn steps of repentance
and faith, will find to his cost one day, that he is totally deceived.  The
Lord’s Supper was meant to increase and help the grace that a man has, but
not to impart the grace that he does not have.  It was certainly never
intended to make our peace with God, to justify, or to convert.

The simplest statement of the benefit which a truehearted communicant may
expect to receive from the Lord’s Supper, is the strengthening and refreshing
of our souls–clearer views of Christ and His atonement, clearer views of all
the offices which Christ, fills as our Mediator and Advocate, clearer views
of the complete redemption Christ has obtained for us by His substituted
death on the cross, clearer views of our full and perfect acceptance in
Christ before God, fresh reasons for deep repentance for sin, fresh reasons
for lively faith–these are among the leading returns which a believer may
confidently expect to get from his attendance at the Lord’s Table.  He that
eats the bread and drinks the wine in a right spirit, will find himself drawn
into closer communion with Christ, and will feel to know Him more, and
understand Him better.

(a)  Right reception of the Lord’s Supper has a “humbling” effect on the
soul.  The sight of the bread and wine as emblems of Christ’s body and blood,
reminds us how sinful sin must be, if nothing less than the death of God’s
own Son could make satisfaction for it, or redeem us from its guilt.  Never
should we be so “clothed with humility,” as when we receive the Lord’s
Supper.

(b) Right reception of the Lord’s Supper has a “cheering” effect on the soul.
The sight of the bread broken, and the wine poured out, reminds us how full,
perfect, and complete is our salvation.  Those vivid emblems remind us what
an enormous price has been paid for our redemption.  They press on us the
mighty truth, that believing on Christ, we have nothing to fear, because a
sufficient payment has been made for our debt.  The “precious blood of
Christ” answers every charge that can be brought against us.  God can be
“just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus”
(Romans 3:26).

(c)  Right reception of the Lord’s Supper has a “sanctifying” effect on the
soul.  The bread and wine remind us how great is our debt of gratitude to our
Lord, and how thoroughly we are bound to live for Him who died for our sins.
They seem to say to us, “Remember what Christ has done for you, and ask
yourself whether there is anything too great to do for Him.”

(d)  Right reception of the Lord’s Supper into hearts, has a restraining
effect on the soul.  Every time a believer receives the bread and the wine he
is reminded what a serious thing it is to be a Christian, and what an
obligation is laid on him to lead a consistent life.  Bought with such a
price as that bread and wine call to his recollection, ought he not to
glorify Christ in body and spirit, which are His?  The man that goes
regularly and intelligently to the Lord’s Table finds it increasingly hard to
yield to sin and conform to the world.

Such is a brief account of the benefits which a right hearted communicant may
expect to receive from the Lord’s Supper.  In eating that bread and drinking
that cup, such a man will have his repentance deepened, his faith increased,
his knowledge enlarged, his habit of holy living strengthened.  He will
realize more of the “real presence” of Christ in his heart.  Eating, that
bread by faith, he will feel closer communion with the body of Christ.
Drinking that wine by faith, he will feel closer communion with the blood of
Christ.  He will see more clearly what Christ is to him, and what he is to
Christ.  He will understand more thoroughly what it is to be “one with
Christ, and Christ one with him.”  He will feel the roots of his soul’s
spiritual life watered, and the work of grace in his heart established, built
up, and carried forward.  All these things may seem and sound like
foolishness to a natural man, but to a true Christian these things are light,
and health, and life, and peace.  No wonder that a true Christian finds the
Lord’s Supper a source of blessing!

Remember, I do not pretend to say that all Christians experience the full
blessing of the Lord’s Supper, which I have just attempted to describe.  Nor
do I say that the same believer will always find his soul in the same
spiritual frame, and always receive the same amount of benefit from the
ordinance.  But I boldly say this: you will rarely find a true believer who
will not say that he believes the Lord’s Supper is one of his best helps and
highest privileges.  He will tell you that if he were deprived of the Lord’s
Supper on a regular basis he would find the loss of it a great detriment to
his soul.  There are some things of which we never know the value of till
they are taken from us.  So I believe it is with the Lord’s Supper.  The
weakest and humblest of God’s children gets a blessing from this ordinance,
to an extent of which he is not aware.

IV) In the last place, I have to consider “why it is that so many so-called
Christians (false believers) never come to the Lord’s Supper.”

It is a simple matter of fact, that myriads of persons who call themselves
Christians never come to the Table of the Lord.  They would not endure to be
told that they deny the faith, and are not in communion with Christ.  When
they worship, they attend a place of Christian worship; when they hear
religious teaching, it is the teaching of Christianity; when they are
married, they use a Christian service.  Yet all this time they never come to
the Lord’s Supper!  They often live on in this state of mind for many years,
and to all appearance are not ashamed.  They often die in this condition
without ever having received the ordinance, and yet profess to feel hope at
the last, and their friends express a hope about them.  And yet they live and
die in open disobedience to a plain command of Christ!  These are simple
facts.  Let any one look around him, and deny them if he can.

Now why is this?  What explanation can we give?  Our Lord Jesus Christ’s last
injunctions to His disciples are clear, plain, and unmistakable.  He says to
all, “Eat, drink: do this in remembrance of Me.”  Did He leave it to our
discretion whether we would obey His injunction or not?  Did He mean that it
was not significant whether His disciples did or did not keep up the
ordinance He had just established?  Certainly not.  The very idea is absurd,
and one certainly never dreamed of in apostolic times.  Paul evidently takes
it for granted that every Christian would go to the Lord’s Table when it was
available.  A class of Christian worshipers who never came to the Table, was
a class whose existence was unknown to him.  What, then, are we to say of
that number which fail to receive the Lord’s Supper, unabashed, unhumbled,
not afraid, not the least ashamed?  Why is it?  How is it?  What does it all
mean?  Let us look these questions fairly in the face, and endeavor to give
an answer to them.

(1)  For one thing, many fail to go to the Table because they are utterly
careless and thoughtless about religion, and ignorant of very first
principles of Christianity.

They go to church, as a matter of form, but they neither know, nor care
anything about what is done at church!  The faith of Christ has no place
either in their hearts, or heads, or consciences, or wills, or
understandings.  It is a mere affair of “words and names,” about which they
know no more than Festus or Gallio.  There were very few such false
Christians in Paul’s times, if indeed there were any.  There are far too many
in these last days of the world.  They are the dead-weight of the Churches,
and the scandal of Christianity.  What such people need is light, knowledge,
grace, a renewed conscience, a changed heart.  In their present state they
have no part of Christ; and dying in this state they are thrown into hell.
Do I wish them to come to the Lord’s Supper?  Certainly not, till they are
converted.  No one can enter the kingdom of God unless he is born again.

(2)  For another thing, many false Christians do not receive the Lord’s
Supper because they know they are living in the habitual practice of some
sin, or in the neglect of some Christian duty.

Their conscience tells them so long as they live in this state, and do not
turn away from their sins, they are unfit to come to the Table of the Lord.
Well: they are so far quite right!  I wish no man to be a communicant if he
cannot give up his sins.  But I warn these people not to forget that if they
are unfit for the Lord’s Supper in that condition they will be lost
eternally.  The same sins which disqualify them for the ordinance, most
certainly disqualify them for heaven.  Do I want them to come to the Lord’s
Supper as they are?  Certainly not!  But I do want them to repent and be
converted, to cease to do evil, and to break off from their sins.  Forever
let it be remembered that the man unfit for the Lord’s Supper is unfit to
die.

(3)  For another thing, some are not communicant because they fancy it will
add to their responsibility.

They are not, as many, ignorant and careless about religion.  They even
attend church regularly and listen to the preaching of the gospel.  But they
say they dread coming to the Lord’s Table and making a confession and a
profession.  They fear that they might afterwards fall away, and bring
scandal on the cause of Christianity.  They think it wisest to be on the safe
side, and not commit themselves at all.  Such people would do well to
remember that if they avoid responsibility of one kind by not coming to the
Lord’s Table, they incur responsibility of another kind, quite as grave, and
quite as injurious to the soul.  They are responsible for open disobedience
to a command from of Christ.  They are shrinking from doing that which their
Master continually commands His disciples–confessing Him before men.  No
doubt it is a serious step to come to the Lord’s Table and receive the bread
and the wine.  It is a step that none should take lightly and without self-
examination.  But it is “no less a serious step to walk away and refuse the
ordinance,” when we remember Who invites us to receive it, and for what
purpose it was appointed!  I warn the people I am now dealing with to be
careful what they are doing.  Let them not flatter themselves that it can
ever be a wise, a prudent, a safe line of conduct to neglect a plain command
of Christ.  They may find at length, to their cost, that they have only
increased their guilt and forsaken their mercies.

(4)  For another thing, some false Christians stay away from the Lord’s
Supper because they believe they are not yet worthy.

They wait and stand still, under the mistaken notion that no one is qualified
for the Lord’s Supper unless he feels within him something like perfection.
They pitch their idea of a communicant so high that they despair of attaining
to it.  Waiting for inward perfection they live, and waiting for it they die.
Now such persons would do well to understand that they are completely
mistaken in their estimate of what “worthiness” really is.  They are
forgetting that the Lord’s Supper was not intended for unsinning angels, but
for men and women subject to weakness, living in a world full of temptations,
and needing mercy and grace every day they live.

A sense of our own utter unworthiness is the best worthiness that we can
bring to the Lord’s Table.  A deep feeling of our own entire indebtedness to
Christ for all we have and hope for, is the best feeling we can bring, with us.
The people I now have in view ought to consider seriously whether the
ground they have taken up is defensible, and whether they are not standing in
their own light.  If they are waiting till they feel in themselves perfect
hearts, perfect motives, perfect feelings, perfect, repentance, perfect love,
perfect faith, they will wait forever.  There never were such communicants in
any age–certainly not in the days of our Lord and of the Apostles–there
never will be as long as the world stands.  No, rather, the very thought that
we feel literally worthy, is a symptom of secret self-righteousness, and
proves us unfit for the Lord’s Table in God’s sight.  Sinners we are when we
first come to the throne of grace–sinners we will be till we die; converted,
changed, renewed, sanctified, but sinners still (though not like before–sin
is not the pattern of a believer’s new life).  In short, no man is really
worthy to receive the Lord’s Supper who does not deeply feel that he is a
“miserable sinner.”

(5)  In the last place, some object going to the Lord’s Table because they
see others partaking who are not worthy, and not in a right state of mind.

Because others eat and drink unworthily, they refuse to eat and drink at all.
Of all the reasons taken up by those refusing to come to the Lord’s Supper to
justify their own neglect of Christ’s ordinance, I must plainly say, I know
none which seems to me so foolish, so weak, so unreasonable, and so
unscriptural as this.  It is as good as saying that we will never receive the
Lord’s Supper at all!  When will we ever find a body of communicants on earth
of which all the members are converted and living perfect lives?  It is
setting up ourselves in the most unhealthy attitude of judging others.  “Who
are you that you judge another person?”  “What is that to you?  You must
follow me” (John 21:22).  It is depriving ourselves of a great privilege
because others profane it and make a bad use of it.  It is pretending to be
wiser than our Master Himself.  It is taking up ground for which there is no
warrant in Scripture.  Paul rebukes the Corinthians sharply for the
irreverent behavior of some of the communicants; but I cannot find him giving
a single hint that when some came to the Table unworthily, others ought to
draw back or stay away.  Let me advise the non-communicants I have now in
view to beware of being wise above that which was written.  Let them study
the parable of the Wheat and Tares, and mark how both were to “grow together
until the harvest” (Matthew 13:30).

Perfect Churches, perfect congregations, perfect bodies of communicants, are
all unattainable in this world of confusion and sin.  Let us covet the best
gifts, and do all we can to check sin in others; but let us not starve our
ownselves because others are ignorant sinners, and turn their food into
poison.  If others are foolish enough to eat and drink unworthily, let us not
turn our backs on Christ’s ordinance, and refuse to eat and drink at all.

Such are the five common excuses why myriads in the present day, though
professing themselves Christians (but they are not), never come to the Lord’s
Supper.  One common remark may be made about them: there is not a single
reason among the five which deserves to be called “good,” and which does not
condemn the man who gives it.  I challenge anyone to deny this.  I have said
repeatedly that I want no one to come to the Lord’s Table who is not properly
qualified.  But I ask those who stay away never to forget that the very
reasons they assign for their conduct are their condemnation.  I tell them
that they stand convicted before God of either being very ignorant of what a
communicant is, and what the Lord’s Supper is; or else of being persons who
are not living right, and are unfit to die.  In short, to say, I am a non-
communicant, is as good as saying one of three things–I am living in sin,
and cannot come–I know Christ commands me, but I will not obey Him–I am an
ignorant man, and do not understand what the Lord’s Supper means.”

I know not in what state of mind this book may find the reader of this paper,
or what his opinions may be about the Lord’s Supper.  But I will conclude the
whole subject by offering to all some warnings, which I venture to think are
highly required by the times.

(1)  In the first place, “do not neglect” the Lord’s Supper.

The man who coolly and deliberately refuses to use an ordinance which the
Lord Jesus Christ appointed for his profit, may be very sure that his soul is
in a very wrong state.  There is a judgment to come; there is, an account to
be rendered of all our conduct on earth.  How any one can look forward to
that day, and expect to meet Christ with comfort and in peace, if he has
refused all his life to commune with Christ at His Table, is a thing that I
cannot understand.  Does this hit home to you?  Be careful what you are
doing.

(2)  In the second place, “do not receive the Lord’s Supper carelessly,”
irreverently, and as a matter of form.

The man who goes to the Lord’s Table, and eats the bread and drinks the wine,
while his heart is far away, is committing a great sin, and robbing himself
of a great blessing.  In this, as in every other means of grace, every thing
depends on the state of mind in which the ordinance is used.  He that draws
near without repentance, faith, and love, and with a heart full of sin and
the world, will certainly be nothing better, but rather worse.  Does this hit
home to you?  Be careful what you are doing.

(3)  In the third place, “do not make an idol” of the Lord’s Supper.

The man who tells you that it is the first, foremost, chief, and principal
precept in Christianity, is telling you that which he will find it hard to
prove.  In the great majority of the books of the New Testament the Lord’s
Supper is not even named.  In the letter to Timothy and Titus, about a
minister’s duties, the subject is not even mentioned.  To repent and be
converted, to believe and be holy, to be born again and have grace in our
hearts–all these things are of far more importance than to be a communicant.
Without them we cannot be saved.  Without the Lord’s Supper we can.  Are you
tempted to make the Lord’s Supper override and overshadow everything in
Christianity, and place it above prayer and preaching?  Be careful.  Pay
attention what you are doing.

(4)  In the fourth place, “do not use the Lord’s Supper irregularly.”

Never be absent when the Lord’s Supper is administered.  Make every effort to
be in attendance.  Regular habits are essential to the maintenance of the
health of our bodies.  Regular use of the Lord’s Supper is essential to the
well-being of our souls.  The man who finds it a burden to attend on every
occasion when the Lord’s Table is spread, may well doubt whether all is right
within him, and whether he is ready for the Marriage Supper of the Lamb.  If
Thomas had not been absent when the Lord appeared the first time to the
assembled disciples, he would not have said the foolish things he did.
Absence made him miss a blessing.  Does this hit home to you?  Be careful
what you are doing.

(5)  In the fifth place, “do not do anything to bring discredit” on your
profession as a communicant.

The man who after attending the Lord’s Table runs into sin, does more harm
perhaps than any sinner.  He is a walking sermon on behalf of the devil.  He
gives opportunity to the enemies of the Lord to blaspheme.  He helps to keep
people away from Christ.  Lying, drinking, adulterous, dishonest, passionate
communicants are the helpers of the devil, and the worst enemies of the
Gospel.  Does this hit home to you?  Be careful what you are doing.

(6)  In the last place, “do not despair” and be cast down, if with all your
desires you do not feel that you get a lot of good from the Lord’s Supper.

Very likely you are expecting too much.  Very likely you are a poor judge of
your own state.  Your soul’s roots may be strengthening and growing, while
you think you are not growing.  Very likely you are forgetting that earth is
not heaven, and that here we walk by sight and not by faith, and must expect
nothing perfect.  Lay these things to heart.  Do not think harsh things about
yourself without cause.

To every reader into whose hands this paper may fall, I commend the whole
subject of it as deserving of serious and solemn consideration.  I am
nothing, better than a poor or fallible man myself.  But if I have made up my
mind on any point it is this–that there is no truth which demands such plain
speaking, as truth about the Lord’s Supper.

 

Volunteer to Teach Preschool/Children!

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2017 Nicaragua Trip

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Men’s Breakfast

Join us Saturday, June 4 at 8:00am for Men’s Breakfast! Invite a friend.

New Groups!

We’d love to start more groups around KC. If you’d like to join a group OR if you’d like to host a group, email Pastor Ben at bspencer@fellowshipwest.com.

Can Manly Men Sing in Church?

I think with the modern church worship movement, the singing time of our worship has gotten a sort of feminine rep. People sing songs like “God I love you. Wrap me in your embrace. Hold me. I feel your beauty, I want to touch you, etc.” And what does that make you do as a man? What response does that generate?  You’re like… “um Na I don’t like that. That’s girly.”

Now, “worship” is way more than the song portion of our church service. It’s a lifestyle of ascribing worth to God. Worship is the act of pointing to Gods infinite glory and power and wonder and love in everything we do. But I want to redefine how we do that in song as men..how manly, godly men are to act when singing in a worship service.

  1. The awesomeness and majesty and beauty of God is NOT girly or weak.
    • God is powerful. He is mighty. He created the universe, the earth, and everything in it. He’s full of wonder and mystery and splendor. But for some reason, the church has labeled those thoughts feminine. It’s been said the church has had too much mothering and not enough fathering. Even the image of Jesus has been transformed (in ignorance) into some pretty boy with luscious brown locks. Jesus was never like that! He was a man! Bearded and calloused. Our Lord is strong and mighty. He worked, he got his hands dirty. So we can say “Jesus is mighty, he is majestic and wonderful”, and we can say it like men.
    • Bragging on how huge and powerful something is isn’t lame. It’s appropriate. You look at the grand canyon and think, “wow, that’s amazing”. How much more so is God? How much more worthy is the creator than the creation.
    • We also have to correct our thoughts about certain terms.  The term “Beauty” is used a lot in the psalms to refer to God. But it doesn’t have to be a feminine term. It’s a great way to describe how perfect and flawless God is.
      • How many of you ever build something and finish and you’re like “oh yea… that is beautiful”?
      • Or maybe a brand new Corvette, or a the most powerful powertools on the market, those things are beautiful right? I see a Rickenbacker 330 guitar and I’m like “You are beautiful indeed”…
      • So it’s not just a romantic term is it? We have to stop treating it that way. His love for us is beautiful. The way he’s made creation is beautiful. It’s flawless, it’s perfect.
  2. Refusal to publicly proclaim God’s praises is deeply rooted in PRIDE 
    • Now I don’t think men see Gods attributes as weak… but its the thought of making ourselves look weaker by pointing out his strength that hinders us.
    • The refusal to praise him is straight pride and nothing else! You want to be strong, you want to be THE MAN. And talking about how small you are compared to God doesn’t pump you up.  But If you’re a christian, you MUST get passed your PRIDE and give God credit for how great he is. That doesn’t make you weak… it makes you smart, and it pleases God.
    • So we need to ask ourselves… Is our response to God held back by pride? Because you don’t want to look weak or vulnerable?
    • We have to remember God commands humility. Scripture says over and over that he honors and blesses the humble. But he despises the proud. He turns from the arrogant.
  3. True worship in song does not have to be emotional, but it should not be guarded.
      • We sing in an atmosphere designed to keep your focus, to help you keep your thoughts on God and what you’re singing. But it doesn’t have to be an emotional moment. There is no scripture that defines singing worship songs as big tear-fests where all the men in the room are weeping.
      • If it is, if the thought of surrendering to God’s faithfulness in a time of hardship brings true emotions out of you, that’s perfectly ok. God desires authentic response, and authentic response is good and necessary to strengthen our faith. Letting our guard down helps us to hold on to God and his promises throughout life. It does nothing for us and nothing for God when we harden our thoughts during worship. God seeks a broken and contrite heart.
  4. God’s love for us is not romantic, neither should our response to that love be.
    • “LOVE” was created by God first. But society has put a weird spin on it. Love these days is seen mostly as Romantic Love. And even love between man and woman has been over-romanticized, leading to a lot of misconceptions about the reality of marriage.
    • True Love is devotion that prompts action. It is unconditional and unwavering. And that’s the love God has for us. He’s devoted to us as a creator is to his creation.
    • So Be secure in your response to that love.
      • Because there is nothing stronger than Him. There is nothing we can put our stock in that’s greater than His power. There’s nothing mightier than Him. There is no one on earth or in heaven who loves you more than the Father does.
      • Look at it this way…Does the loyal army feel weird about shouting praise to the king they serve? Neither should we about our king.
  5. True worship in song is thoughtful and deliberate.
    • What are you thinking when we sing? Anything? Maybe you’re thinking of the people around you, maybe looking at the drummer or the people around you. You might be worrying about whether someone can hear you sing, or you may be thinking about how bad your wife’s voice is.
    • When we sing, we should be focusing on the truths of God, His faithfulness, His strength in our weakness, His sacrificial unending love for us. We need to actually say the lyrics to God, proclaiming those truths over the situations in our own lives. It benefits neither side when we sing words we don’t give a second thought.
    • TRY THIS… Next time, during the service, sing the songs as if you’re having a conversation with God, like it’s a prayer instead of a song. I promise you will be blessed by it.
  6. How we worship influences our families.
      • We can mislead our kids in 2 ways by how we act in a worship setting.
        • We lead them to believe corporate worship singing is important, but that it’s meant to be an emotional and romantic moment.
        • OR we lead them to believe corporate worship isn’t important.
      • You know your kids watch you do everything. Do you want them to think you’re a hypocrite because you talk about God, but when it comes to expressing his glory in worship, you just stand there stoic? They see how excited you get about baseball, football, and soccer games, but when it comes to God, it’s like you’re not moved at all. They think, well is God important? Is he real? Do we really need him? Because my dad doesn’t seem like it.

    As the spiritual leaders and influencers of our wives and children, we HAVE TO SHOW them how a strong christian sings to the Lord. With thoughtfulness and sincerity. With pride in our God and humility in ourselves.


I promise this to my church:

* I will NEVER lead a coed service in feminine, ooey gooey worship.
* I will not bring to the church songs that depict a romantic relationship between the worshiper and God, BUT RATHER a deep adoration of God’s greatness and love.

If you feel like I have, come talk to me about it and we’ll discuss it. You may point out something to me that I’ve overlooked. Or I may have some valuable insight for you.

The Action of Love

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It’s a cheesy, once popular phrase that’s almost no where to be seen nowadays (unless you count your local christian book store). The popularity is gone, but what about its call to action?

I was reading in Luke 14, when Jesus heals a suffering man on the Sabbath. Afterwards He turns to the lawyers and Pharisees in His midst and said “Which one of you will have a son or an ox fall into a well, and will not immediately pull him out on a Sabbath day?”

The question paints a dramatic image. And of course, we would all rescue someone from a well at any point… because without rescue, without our help to give them a way out, they would die.

But there are people all around us, at work, at school, in the grocery store, a waiter at our favorite restaurant, maybe even a family member who is also trapped. They’re stuck in a deep deep well, whether they jumped in, slipped in, or were pushed in by another. And unless they are given a way out, they will suffer, they will starve for help, and they will die. They will die after all the while living right beside us, standing outside the locked gate unaware that those next to them have the key they desperately need.

Our God is a loving father. He didn’t create His children for suffering, but sin has entered in nevertheless. Still He has hands and feet on this earth. He has a church, an army of servants after His will. Being His ambassadors on earth means doing what He would do for those He loves. It means working to meet needs immediately, without hesitation. It means seeing the lost around us not as hopeless or as untouchable, but as people who need finding, people who need saving. It means doing what we can to provide.

Love is not a feeling. It’s an action. And the best way to fail at it is to never try.

“In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.”  -Matt 5:16

“The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”  -Mark 12:31

“And let our people learn to devote themselves to good works, so as to help cases of urgent need, and not be unfruitful.”  -Titus 3:14

Father, help us see the people trapped around us. Help us see the hurting, the angry, the depressed, the lonely, the anxious, those trapped in sin. Help us to see from the shore those drowning in the waters beside us. Help us to show them the way, to give them even a small opportunity for safety, for salvation. Help us to see not their sin, but the love the Father has for them, His children. Remove our fear and hesitance and replace it with an active love, and a desire to help those who are in physical and spiritual need. Amen.

Worshiping in Spirit

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“But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him.” –John 4:23


 

Worshiping in “spirit” was not a reference to the Holy Spirit. He’s talking about our emotions and our will, our mindset, motive, and desire. In other words, it’s the opposite of singing and raising of hands without truly purposing in connecting with God and exalting Him. It’s when the body joins in with the emotion and intellect to say “You are worthy, faithful, good, holy, etc”.

Do you sing to the Lord with your spirit, with your will and mind keenly focused on His greatness? Are you singing words with notes, or are you responding to Him for all He’s given to you and all He’s done for you? Empty songs don’t mean anything to our creator. They don’t give Him glory. They don’t bring us joy and encouragement. But worshiping in spirit does.

I challenge you this Sunday, come with an intentionality to join in worship to a worthy Savior! Give all the focus of your thoughts to what we’re saying with the songs we sing. Dwell on the messages, proclaim the truths in faith. Thank God that He never fails us, that His word is true, His hope is strong, and His love is everlasting! Come join with brothers and sisters in spirit as we lift up our King.

 

Night of Gold and White

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Two praise and worship songs… a cheesy reindeer joke…  a quote from the Grinch…  a presentation of the Gospel… and “What is a Chrismon?”  And that was only the first half of a fun and incredible ladies event.

Last Tuesday evening, seventy-one amazing women gathered at Fellowship West for “An Evening of Gold and White – Celebrating Christ Through Chrismons.”  And yes, the word really is Chrismon; a combination of the words Christ and monogram.  Chrismons are white and gold ornaments that represent who Christ is; His character and His ministry.  The Chrismon tree I made about ten years ago was on display, and I explained the significance of each of the eleven different ornaments, such as a cross and a lamb.

To stay in theme, each of the eleven tables was decorated in gold and white, and even the food we served was white.  It really was beautiful.  We also had give-aways.  In the center of each table was a white lantern with a tea-light candle.  One lady at each table became the owner of the lantern.  And then we had a drawing for a door prize; a lovely Christmas cookbook.

We sang, we worshiped, we ate, we laughed, and each lady made a gold and white beaded Chrismon ornament to take home as a remembrance.  But I think the highlight of the evening for me was being able to present a simple devotion using a very familiar Scripture verse, John 3:16. My prayer is that every person who attended our Chrismon celebration will realize the importance of the Baby in the manger, and what He came to accomplish through His birth, life, death, and resurrection.  And may we all truly celebrate Christ this Christmas.  After all, that is what the word “Christmas” means.  If you aren’t going to celebrate Christ, you might as well just go around saying “Merry” to everyone and forget about the word “Christmas.”  Please don’t leave the baby in the manger when Christmas is over this year… He did not stay a baby.  He grew up to become the Savior of the World.  But more importantly, He grew up to become a “Personal Savior”… My personal Savior… Your personal Savior.  Jesus Christ is a gift just waiting to be opened…   And remember, we can’t buy Christmas.  Christmas is Free.

-Karen Clough

Love One Another

The mission statement of Fellowship West is; Share Jesus, Disciple Believers, Love People.  Fellowship West exists not for ourselves, but for the Glory of God.  We continually pursue ways to accomplish our mission so that we can make Him known.  We are striving to make a positive impression on our community through prayer, intentional conversation, and a lifestyle of love for our neighbor.

John 13:34-35 says,  A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.  By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”  Our Fellowship recently sought to love our community by providing coats for those in need.  I am pleased to announce that we were able to provide coats for every student in need at Bonner Springs Elementary, their family members, and also students and families from other schools in the area.  We also have enough coats left over to aide our International Campus to provide for their community.  We will continue to look for ways to demonstrate the love of Christ to those in our community.  We are grateful for all who helped us provide coats, and want to encourage others to join us as we strive towards continuing to impact our community.